But this actually ties in to the further mistake…
Mistake #2: You’re Trying to victory, Maybe Not Date
Just like the past blunder, when you are into matchmaking with a dispute attitude, your have a tendency to see dating and gender to be about dominance, maybe not connection. Some dudes, specially men who’ve come caught up in PUA or red-pill bullshit tend to buy into this; they discover relationships as being about “who’s in control” or who’s on top, as opposed to a partnership, anything collaborative you both establish together.
A lot of this comes across in bullshit “rules” and techniques that are purportedly about showing the benefits or driving those mythical “shit-tests”. Continue reading “While the claiming goes: gamble stupid games, winnings stupid awards.”