13 Best Remote Control Vibrators for Giving and Receiving Pleasure 2025
Designed to be worn between your fingers, the Fin is an easy-to-grasp sex toy that can stay discreet during sex, Lisa Finn, sex educator with sex toy store Babeland, tells SELF. “You don’t have to worry about it slipping from your hands as you play, which is great for mobility and accessibility as well as keeping it from being obstructive or in the way,” they say. It’s also water-resistant, USB-rechargeable, and has three low-intensity settings that you can explore by pressing its only button.
The vibrator is one-size-fits-all and designed to fit into any of your panties, simply with a little magnet that securely keeps it in place. Hook it up with the We-Connect mobile app and your partner can control your panties from literally anywhere — yes, even across the globe. With over 1,000 glowing reviews, this bullet vibrator is designed exclusively for external use and is not suitable for anal play.
But we do not think this toy is the best pick for solo clitoral play (unless you prefer “riding” or grinding against a vibrator while lying face down, as opposed to holding it in place with your hand). We do think this toy has great potential for use during partnered intercourse, where the person with the vulva is on top. We decided to test the Fun Factory Volta on the recommendation of esteemed sex-toy blogger Epiphora, who gave it a glowing review and selected it as one of the best sex toys of 2018.
Others were marketed as plain-old massagers, beauty aids and weight-loss devices. I stopped the action, Dave pulled away, and the loud buzzing returned. Maybe my vaginal…region is just too big, but this thing was not going to stick.
The charge point is concealed within the silicone that covers the outside of the Cherry, and you have to insert the charger at a slightly awkward angle to get it to connect. Every time I used the charger I felt like I was on the verge of breaking the silicone lining when I was rooting around for the port. Embedded throughout the small device are three separate vibration motors, two in the base and one larger module at the top. In addition to motors, the two sides of the bottom half of the Tenuto Mini house flexible joints that allow you to rotate the nubs to sit comfortably snug on your penis.
It might be a touch louder than other vibrators I tested, but not so loud that you’ll wake someone in the next room while you’re using it. “It’s super important to read the instructions of your particular toy to know how to keep it clean and in working order,” Lincoln says. She also explains that you should be using cleaners that are specifically formulated for intimate devices. “Toys are meant to bring fun into your experience. Make sure you’re in a comfortable space mentally and physically,” Chang says.
It also has a low battery indicator, so there are no mid-sex surprises. Wand vibrators are typically on the larger side, but there are still plenty of different shapes to choose from. “Vaginas, vulvas, and other erogenous areas come in different shapes and sizes , and finding the perfect length and width is key,” says Dr. Hack. The price range for vibrators is surprisingly vast, with the most affordable options in the $20 area and the most luxurious upwards of $300.
But despite its general reliability, a larger wand vibrator doesn’t necessarily scream discreet. This wand in particular tends to be louder vibrators, and definitely requires more real estate in your nightstand drawer. As with everything else when it comes to sex, what makes a good vibrator relies a lot on a single factor — your own preferences.